The Four Pillars of My Struggle If I had followed the plans given to me, I would be a Charted Accountant and probably married to a man I didn’t really love. Don’t get me wrong there is nothing wrong with Accounting; and men in the audit work are great but not for me. I can say […]
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Five Things You Can Learn From Dating Someone With A Mental Illness
It’s okay to date me, I’m not crazy. This is what I wanted to say when my partner had taken the time to read up on depression and bipolar II disorder. I’m lucky that my partner didn’t run as soon as he found out about my diagnosis, however I wouldn’t have blamed him if he […]
Finding Your Source of Joy
By Sade Namubes Have you ever felt like your life is going nowhere? Like you are not achieving anything? It is as though you are stuck in one phase of your life; giving you the impression that the universe has given up on you and left you to fend for yourself. If so, then welcome […]
The 10 Types of Men I Don’t Date
by Sade Namubes I always say nobody really knows you like the person you are in a relationship with. I have had my fair share of disastrous relationships and I am simply tired of being a serial monogamist. So I decided to not date for a while- not because I don’t want to- No! The […]
The Present Regrets of The Past
‘For I now the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” – Jeremiah 29:11 I am not where I thought I would be five years ago. I always thought that by the age of 25 I would […]
Age Difference and Love
They Are Not as Important as Respect by Barton Goldsmith Ph.D. People raise eyebrows at couples who are far apart in terms of age. Anything over ten years apart is subject to question. The real truth is that there are so many other things that matter more when it comes to long-lasting love than how […]